
Hey Ambitious Conquerors! 💫
Quick question: When was the last time you rested without guilt?
Not scrolled through your phone exhausted. Not collapsed after burning yourself out. Actually rested—intentionally, unapologetically, without earning it first.
If you can't remember, you're not alone. We've been conditioned to wear burnout like a badge of honor. To believe rest is lazy. To think the hustle never stops.
But here's what high performers know: rest isn't the opposite of productivity. It's the foundation of it.
This week, we're talking about strategic rest. Because the most productive thing you can do is rest.
The Project Rich Bitch Team 💎
💖 EBBS & FLOWS: The Crash That Taught Me Rest Isn't Optional
I wore burnout like armor. No days off. Sleep was for the weak. Exhaustion meant I was doing it right.
Until my body said no.
I woke up one morning and couldn't get out of bed. Not tired—broken. My back seized. My head pounded. My body literally shut down because I refused to listen to it.
The doctor's orders? Rest. Real rest. For weeks.
I was furious. I had launches planned. Clients waiting. Revenue goals to hit. How could I afford to rest?
But here's what I learned during those forced weeks off: I couldn't afford NOT to.
When I finally returned, something had shifted. I was clearer. More creative. More decisive. The work I produced in 20 focused hours was better than what I'd been grinding out in 60 exhausted ones.
That crash taught me: rest isn't a reward for productivity. It's what makes productivity possible.
Now I schedule rest like I schedule meetings. One full rest day per week. One rest week per quarter. Non-negotiable.
And here's what's wild: my revenue went UP. My creativity improved. My relationships deepened. Because I finally had the energy to show up fully.
The questions that changed my relationship with rest:
What would change if I treated rest as strategic, not lazy?
How much is burnout actually costing me?
What if rest made me MORE productive, not less?
Whose approval am I seeking by exhausting myself?
Rest isn't a luxury. It's a competitive advantage. And if you're still treating it like something you have to earn, you're leaving money and energy on the table.
Ebony ✨
🎓 Abundance Academy: The Science of Strategic Rest—Why High Performers Rest Smarter, Not Less
Rest is my strategic advantage. I recover to perform at my peak. 🚀
Let's kill the myth: successful people don't work more than everyone else. They work smarter. And part of working smarter is resting strategically.
Research shows that rest improves decision-making, creativity, and problem-solving. High performers don't push through exhaustion—they recover intentionally.
OLD MINDSET VS. RICH BITCH MINDSET
Old Mindset | Rich Bitch Mindset |
"Rest is lazy" | "Rest is strategic and necessary" |
"I'll rest when I'm done" | "Rest makes me better at everything I do" |
"Burnout is a badge of honor" | "Burnout is a design flaw, not a flex" |
What Rest Actually Does:
1. IMPROVES DECISION-MAKING Sleep-deprived leaders make worse financial decisions. Well-rested brains process information faster and more accurately.
2. BOOSTS CREATIVITY Your best ideas don't come during the grind—they come during rest. That's when your brain makes connections you couldn't see while working.
3. INCREASES PRODUCTIVITY Working 70 hours exhausted produces less than working 40 hours rested. It's not about time—it's about energy.
4. PREVENTS BURNOUT Chronic stress literally shrinks your brain. Rest rebuilds it. Think of it as maintenance for your most valuable asset.
Rich Bitch Reality Check: If you're too exhausted to think clearly, you're not being productive—you're just busy. Rest smarter. 💎
How to Build Strategic Rest Into Your Life:
DAILY REST Block 1 hour daily for non-negotiable rest. Reading. Napping. Walking. Whatever fills your cup.
WEEKLY REST One full day per week with NO WORK. No emails. No strategy. Just restoration.
QUARTERLY REST One full week per quarter for deep rest and reflection. Vacation, staycation, or mental health week.
ANNUAL REST Two weeks minimum per year completely unplugged. This is when deep restoration happens.
💰 Money Moves: The Rest Budget—How to Invest in Recovery Like You Invest in Growth
You budget for business expenses. Marketing. Software. Team. But do you budget for rest?
Most women don't. And it costs them in productivity, creativity, and health.
HOW TO BUILD A REST BUDGET
CALCULATE 5-10% OF YOUR BUDGET FOR REST Yes, really. Rest is an investment, not an indulgence.
WHAT QUALIFIES:
Spa days and massages
Therapy and mental health support
Vacation and travel
Quality sleep tools (mattress, pillows, blackout curtains)
Anything that helps you recover and recharge
WHERE THE ROI SHOWS UP:
Better decision-making (worth thousands in avoided mistakes)
Increased creativity (your best ideas come when you're rested)
Improved health (avoiding burnout saves medical costs and lost productivity)
Higher earning potential (you perform better when you're not exhausted)
THE STRATEGIC REST PLAN
TIER 1: DAILY RECOVERY ($20-50/month)
Quality sleep supplements or tea
Journal for evening wind-down
Apps like Calm or Headspace
TIER 2: WEEKLY REJUVENATION ($100-300/month)
Weekly massage or acupuncture
Therapy or coaching sessions
Spa membership or float tank
TIER 3: QUARTERLY DEEP REST ($500-2K/quarter)
Weekend getaways
Wellness retreats
Staycations at local hotels
Rich Bitch Reality Check: The money you spend on rest returns in productivity, creativity, and avoided burnout. It's not an expense—it's an investment in your highest-performing self. 💫
✨ Luxe Life: The Luxury of Doing Nothing—How Boredom Became My Secret Weapon
I spent an entire Sunday doing absolutely nothing productive.
No meetings. No emails. No "personal development." I read. I napped. I stared at the ceiling. And it was the most luxurious day I've had in months.
Here's what I learned: boredom is a luxury. In a culture that glorifies busyness, doing nothing is the ultimate status symbol.
How to Embrace the Luxury of Nothing:
SCHEDULE NOTHING Block time for literally nothing. No agenda. No goals. Just exist.
RESIST THE PRODUCTIVITY TRAP Rest doesn't need to be "productive." It doesn't need to teach you anything. It can just be rest.
EMBRACE BOREDOM Your best ideas don't come from consuming more content. They come from boredom. Give your brain space.
PROTECT YOUR NOTHING TIME People will try to fill your rest time with their priorities. Protect it fiercely.
Rich Bitch Reality Check: In a world that glorifies busy, doing nothing is the ultimate power move. Luxury isn't about doing more—it's about having the freedom to do less.
👑 How Tricia Hersey (The Nap Ministry) Made Rest a Revolution
Tricia Hersey founded The Nap Ministry with a radical message: rest is resistance.
In a culture that glorifies grind, especially for Black women who've been conditioned to overwork and under-rest, Tricia teaches that rest is not a reward for productivity—it's a human right.
Her movement has helped thousands of women see rest as a strategic tool and a form of liberation. She hosts "rest experiences" and community naps, teaching people how to reclaim rest from hustle culture.
Her message: "We are not resting to be more productive. We're resting because it's our divine right."
The lesson: Rest isn't something you earn. It's something you deserve. And when you rest strategically, you don't just recover—you perform at your peak.
Rich Bitch Reality Check: Grind culture wants you exhausted. Rest is how you resist. Rest is how you win. 🚀
Community Poll
What's your biggest barrier to rest?
BEFORE YOU GO
You're not a machine. You're a human being. And human beings need rest.
Not as a reward. Not after you've earned it. Now. Consistently. Strategically.
Start small. Take one full rest day this week. See how it changes everything.
Own Your Story. Build Your Empire. 💎
